Customer Success

Customer Success Is Not Customer Happiness.

Why making customers happy and helping them succeed are not always the same thing.

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Customer happiness is important. Nobody wants to work with an unhappy customer.


But happiness and success are not necessarily the same thing.


A customer can be happy with a friendly account manager, responsive emails and regular meetings, while still struggling to achieve the business outcomes they originally invested in.


Equally, a customer may be frustrated by a difficult conversation, a delayed feature or a necessary change in scope, yet still recognise that the relationship is delivering value.


This is where I believe customer success needs to go deeper.


It should begin with understanding what the customer is actually trying to accomplish.


What problem are they solving? What does success look like? How will they know the investment was worthwhile?


These questions should not disappear after a contract is signed.


They should shape onboarding, delivery conversations, governance meetings, product discussions and future planning.


Customer success is not about agreeing with everything a customer says. Sometimes it means asking difficult questions, challenging assumptions or explaining why a particular approach may not deliver the expected result.


It also means being transparent when things aren’t going as planned.


The strongest customer relationships I’ve experienced weren’t built on pretending everything was perfect. They were built on trust, honest conversations and a shared commitment to finding a way forward.


Customer happiness may be an outcome of a good relationship.


Customer success is the discipline of helping the customer achieve what matters to them.


And that distinction matters.


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Srivatsan Nemili Aravamudan

Enterprise customer and business transformation leader working at the intersection of technology, business strategy and customer relationships.

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Customer Success, With Empathy.

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